In this article you will learn how to make a man think about you constantly. Four things that you can do right now that will keep him thinking about you and creating you all the time.The psychologically based tips that I’m going to share with you working in four ways to keep your man thinking about you constantly. First when you use these tips with the man, you’re going to be triggering a powerful combination of neurotransmitters in his brain that makes me feel an amazing vibe that he can’t get enough her, second this powerful brain cocktail is going to be associated with you and he will feel incredibly attracted to you.
And lastly using these tips you’re going to demonstrate the fact that you are an amazing high-value woman that he wants in his life. And when those things happen. He won’t be able to get you off his mind. Now I’m going to more detail here and explain what to do step-by-step, so be sure you get all of these tips because they work best when they’re using combination.
1 . Control The Dopamine Reward Loop: you’re probably familiar with dopamine. It’s the neurotransmitter that’s made in the brain involved in neurological and physiological functioning. Dopamine is known as the feel-good neurotransmitter because it strongly associated with feelings of pleasure and reward and positive mood, Dopamine is powerful and it’s the biggest reason why people develop addictions to drugs, gambling, and even sex. And that’s because drug users and other vices release massive amounts of dopamine in the nucleus accumbens area of the brain, which leads to experiencing euphoria, intense pleasure, arousal, motivation, and happiness. but Because dopamine is metabolized so quickly, those great feelings are short-lived and you are soon wanting more and more, causing you to return to the original source. This is known as the dopamine reward loop and of course when you’ve experienced that dopamine reward loop you want to repeat it over and over.
Okay, so how is this related to dating. Well, when you are interacting with someone that you are attracted to your brain releases dopamine and that’s the start of the dopamine reward and that dopamine makes you feel great, but that feeling is short-lived, as the dopamine is quickly metabolized and decreases and then become motivated to seek more of that person’s attention and more more dopamine. The cycle then repeats itself. As you crave more dopamine to keep those amazing feelings going. That’s why, in the beginning when you really likes someone you feel like you just can’t get enough from them, but it also works in the reverse direction. In other words, if your brain is trigger to release more dopamine.
First, you will experience the same euphoric and feel good vibes and in return those amazing feelings become associated with the people or the experiences that you are involved with at the time. For example, if a man experiences a flood of dopamine in your presence. He feels those amazing feelings and then relate to those feelings to you that result in him being more attracted to you and he starts to desire you more as a result. So far so good right well this is where the game changes because I’m going to share how to interact with him, so that his dopamine levels skyrocket, and then not only will he feel pleasure, attraction, and happiness. He’s going to see you as the source of these amazing feelings and that keep him focused on you and thinking about you constantly.
This is how you make his dopamine skyrocket. You see dopamine levels are highest or your brain is flooded with dopamine when the combination of two things happen. The first is when you think about or anticipate the pleasurable experience or in the case of dating when you think about that person. and secondly, when there is a 50-50 chance that you will be able to have that pleasurable experience for see that person so that when there is uncertainty attached to having that desire to experience. There is a much greater expectation and a much larger dopamine production. That’s when dopamine is flooding your brain more than any other time. It’s knowing that maybe this experience will happen that is addictive like nothing else after.
This is exactly how casinos get people coming back. They provide that maybe they provide that uncertainty combined with the possibility of winning an extremely high reward which feels great and that’s the dopamine hit that keeps people hooked like a drug. Okay, so back to dating. When you are able to influence his dopamine reward loop when you’re able to control that dopamine faucet your man will want you and crave you like nothing else. So how do you do it? well. The best way that I can explain this is by having you imagine an example. You need an attractive and successful man that showing interest in you. He’s someone that you’re really excited about getting to know and you spend time with him and it feels wonderful. You have this amazing chemistry and attraction and you know he feels it too, exploit neither of you want your time together to end.
But at the end of the date he gives you this incredible embrace and it tells you that he wants to see you again soon, but he doesn’t say when ,he doesn’t say he will text you or call you. He simply says thank you for great night. Let’s do this again soon and you part ways. So now how do you feel, what’s going through your mind, . Is it excitement or happiness or anticipation while you’re anything like me you probably find yourself thinking about him a lot, that’s dopamine you find yourself with playing things that happened on the date in the things that you talked about. That’s also dopamine and you catch yourself daydreaming about him and you crave that amazing experience again, and most importantly, you wonder if or when you will hear from him again and then uncertainty makes you crazy, dopamine, and that’s what get you hooked. Okay, so the date is over and you go home feeling excited and happy but you probably also spend a lot of time trying to anticipate if or when you will hear from him. That’s anticipation that will likely grow until you hear from him again.
So the next morning you wake up and you check your phone and you see that he still hasn’t sent you a text message that makes the anticipation built and you start to analyze every detail and try to convince yourself that it was a great date and this goes on for much of the day you have flashback memories you think about him and you question if or when he will reach out and that’s not such a great feeling and then finally you hear that distinct alert of a new text message you eagerly look at your phone and you see that it’s a message from him.
You have an instant excitement and an instant dopamine hit so you open it you see that he says he had a great time and he says let’s get together again in the next few days and at that moment, you feel relieved ,you feel happy and you for it feels amazing and you respond immediately and you let him know that you would love to see him again and then you sit back and wait for his response, and if he responds back quickly and you were able to confirm a time of the day, then your excitement and wills as were anticipate the next date but if he doesn’t respond properly or confirm plans with you. You are euphoric feeling is short-lived in your back to that anticipation. And this is your dopamine reward loop being activated not often times this texting exchange will blossom into a texting conversation and you go back and forth texting one another and it feels exciting and fun.
You start to think that you really getting to know one another and you feel good that your stay connected to him, but this is also where so many people get in trouble, please start to get into this back and forth texting dialogue when they find themselves thinking about it, anticipating his next text like an addiction. You start waiting for that next to it which is completely satisfied because it assures you that he’s thinking about you also short-lived in that feel good hit of dopamine. It fades away as soon as you respond because then you waiting for his next text and your left wanting more and then when you don’t immediately get more you start to come down and feel uneasy and unsatisfied until you get another text message again, this up-and-down anticipatory anxiety doesn’t feel so good. That’s why you must take control of that texting dopamine loop and when you do, you can alleviate much of your anticipation anxiety while also keeping him in that same dopamine loop.
2. Do Not Use Texting As A Means Of Getting To Know Him: I know that texting has become the preferred method of communication for dating but texting is not a great means of getting to know another person because texting will never be a substitute for in person or for telephone communication especially when you’re trying to get to know someone there just too many opportunities for things to be misconstrued or misunderstood, and I know it can be fun and exciting, but it’s also a dangerous practice. I understand the excitement you feel when you really like someone and I understand that texting can make you feel like you’re staying connected and it reminds you that he’s thinking of you. But if you’re too enthusiastic also to seem too eager, your value in the attraction that he feels toward you might decline too much texting could result in him getting too much satisfaction or validation and that he no longer gets the same dopamine reward.
When he sees her text message because he feels like he already won your heart and at the same time you’re stuck in that same dopamine texting loop, so that’s why it’s important to avoid that trap don’t use texting to try staying connected to a stranger is that the best way to get to know him is by spending time in communicating with him face-to-face. And if that can’t happen because we are in a pandemic than the next best option is video calling, followed by telephone call. Not texting ,texting is best suited for exchanging little bits of information in between dates I want you to try keeping the texting to a minimum and use it as a means of setting up date or as a means of setting up phone conversations.
Trust me when you don’t engage in this back and forth texting in the beginning it forces him to make plans with you and call you,so when he starts trying to engage in communicating and getting to know you by text messages you need to let him know that texting is not your preferred method of communicating. Instead you prefer talking on the phone or meeting in person, but of course even after you tell him that he’s probably going to continue trying to text you and engage in deeper conversations via text because if he really likes you. He’s also finding himself in that dopamine loop, but instead of giving him that instant dopamine hit that is looking for when he tries to communicate or continue engaging in deep conversations via text, then you do number three.
3. Vary The Amount Of Time It Takes You To Respond To His Text Messages: When you do that, then you are controlling his dopamine loop. But wait, wait, Antonio, that sounds like you play a game or manipulating. I want to do that yes I totally agree with you I don’t like that either. That’s why you should continue to suggest not using texting as a method of getting to know him. But as I said he is going to continue trying to do that in which case I don’t want you to be sucked into that dopamine reward loop instead. When he text you sometimes will respond within seconds, sometimes within minutes, sometimes within hours and sometimes you might even forget to respond and when you do that he’s going to keep checking his phone to see if you responded and that means he’s also going to be thinking of you constantly and when you do respond.
He’s going to be excited to read it and is going to get ahead of dopamine as part of that reward and that just reinforces his behavior and his motivation for you even more. And don’t think for a minute that he’s going to lose interest. That’s just her fear and insecurity talking if you vary your response time he will only be more interested and more excited because you are controlling his dopamine supply. So vary the weight at which you respond and try to make it as random as possible.
4. Prioritize Your Life And Don’t Always Be Available For Him: Men are attracted to women who have a full life, not to woman who come up as needy and clingy and if you have a full and busy life you cannot always be available when he is, especially if he is texting with last minute plans. He cannot think that you will drop everything, or change your plans for his last minute request. This goes a long way towards trapping him to see with a high-value woman with an exciting life. And when you do that he’s going to want to be part of that. Now I’m not saying that you should make time for him. I’m simply saying that he should plan and schedule dates with you ahead of time. Look, I understand that this isn’t always easy to do especially when you’re excited about someone that’s when you want to spend as much time with them as possible.
But as I said earlier that’s part of the dopamine reward loop and feeling like you just can’t get enough. So instead of falling into that loop, you must make sure that you are keeping up with the life that you had prior to meeting him. You can’t stop doing the things that you were doing before you met him and believe me, when you prioritize your life. He’s going to take notice and your value in his eyes will go way up. As will the challenge that we will be wanting you more than ever. So don’t jump in with both feet and see him as much as he wants leave him wanting more and craving more. Trust me, this works like magic. now If you know anyone who finds themselves trapped in this dopamine texting loop. Please share this article with them. You could be saving them a ton of grief and anxiety help them to develop a stronger relationship.
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